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Recently i received an email a really intersting email from a good friend and i think it’s really interesting and something that most of us female should take not and learn something out from it. Here it is , and i wanted to share with all of you out there. All starts from here

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. 
If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay. 
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. 
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. 
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that’s not meant to be.
Slower is better. 
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve
then heck no, you can’t "be friends." A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend. 
 
Don’t settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. 
Don’t stay because you think "it will get better." You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. 
The only person you can control in a relationship is you. 

Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant, 
Why would he treat you any differently? 

Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.

Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.

You cannot change a man’s behavior. Change comes from within.

Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are…even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.

He is a man, nothing more nothing less. 
Never let a man define who you are. 
Never borrow someone else’s man. 
Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you. 
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. 
All men are NOT dogs. 

You should not be the one doing all the bending…compromise is a two-way street. 
You need time to heal between relationships…there is nothing cute about baggage… deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship

You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you…a relationship consists 
of two WHOLE individuals…look for someone complimentary…not supplementary. 

RecentlyDating is fun…even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr. Right. 

Make him miss you sometimes…when a man always know where you are, and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.

Don’t fully commit to a man who doesn’t give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others. 

Share this with other ladies….. You’ll make someone SMILE, another
RETHINK her choice s, and another woman PREPARE. 
They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate
them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them. 

BY THE WAY, THIS WAS WRITTEN BY A MAN, SO TAKE A HINT…………..

I think this article is really interesting, i know a lot of your out there might not agree to whatever is stated inside, but think cleary, do we go through all this misery in our lifes? Maybe it’s time to rally think what we deserve. Everyone deserves someone special to them. I used to let people to pull me around and have nothing to say about it. But for all the relationships that i gone through, it really thought me a really good lesson. LOVE YOURSELF BEFORE YOU WANT OTHERS TO LOVE YOU. Never let anyone put a string around you and pull you around. Always make a stand towards things whis is right, and cut off immediately if you think that things are wrong. Never put yourself into a miserable life. IT"S NOT WORTH IT AT ALL. Why do we want to waste our time in somethings that we know it will not happen. Never expect anyone to change, cause sometimes even we ourselves cannot changed.

Remember one thing, change for YOURSELF and NOT FOR OTHERS. That will make our life happier. We are all human beings and we all deserve the right kind of respect and rights!!!!!!

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